“You can't stay in your corner of the Forest waiting for others to come to you. You have to go to them sometimes.” ― A.A. Milne, Winnie-the-Pooh
You (Secretly) know your gifts are needed
You keep receiving hints about the magic you have inside, but aren't sure how to dig in deeper to really live your purpose and find true fulfillment.
You've sought out personal development coaches or business coaches- working with the "Driven and/or Ass-kicking." While others might suggest that you have it in you to become - you just feel in your soul that you are not that.
You might have realized that caring too much, keeping up on the technical side, or running so fast for too long have begun to drain the joy out of the work you've loved for so long.
So I'm inviting you to my party
For years, I generally felt different. I wondered what was wrong with me- even though I craved being Seen and Known by other people! I always knew that I was sensitive, private and reserved (with a wicked sense of humor). I fell into a career where I could listen well, and help people through their darkest moments and beyond. I'm no stranger to darkness- I spent many years working with folks involved with the court systems and individuals who were institutionalized - the hardest stuff you could imagine. I've spent the last few years working with people who wanted to have better relationships- couples and families in conflict, and individuals who had become disconnected from themselves.
I began to recognize some similarities - frequently the individual (or one half of the couple) were emotionally and sometimes physically very sensitive. Very often, they were helpers and healers- teachers, therapists & medical professionals, etc. Solution- focused and practical, they often felt driven to help others and to have deeper, meaningful connections in their relationships. Frequently, they process experiences internally, thinking things through and also considering how they felt about the decision, or how others would feel (and sometimes experience analysis paralysis.) Usually very private – used to hearing more about other people than others knew about them, leaving them with a sense of longing to be seen. Many had even been self medicating, to manage the discomfort they didn't quite understand.
Once I began to understand my inner design, I realized there wasn’t anything “wrong” with me. I started to experience Self-Compassion and Self-Acceptance at a deep level - the same empathy and compassion I offer the people I support. I became more focused and I felt empowered in ways I'd never expected!
I Finally Remembered that I had spent years helping others to understand and connect more deeply with themselves. That's when my phone started ringing! I began hearing clients tell me how connected they felt with what they read on my website. Survey responses said things like, "I really felt you saw me for me" and "your help has changed the way I feel and act."
My clients were having excellent results because I was tailoring each session to the individual through an applied use of my knowledge of inner design.
Once I had stopped comparing myself and my gifts to others, I recognized that my offerings would speak to those who have experienced similar fears, concerns, and uncertainties.
I support Healers Helpers, and Hypnotists as Entrepreneurs.
As Mental Health Professionals, we've been taught to look for diagnosis- for what's Wrong with the person/couple/family/system, often before we can get to know their strengths. I facilitate professionals seeing their clients differently- moving beyond any diagnosis. Diagnosis may be important, and it may not be necessary to help the people in front of you. This energetic shift allows us to see what is- without judgment, without needing to solve a problem. Imagine quickly moving past the story to recognize the need behind the words, so you facilitate change driven by the clients' unique motivations.
I hold space for Awakening Healers and Helpers - as you go into your hearts, and explore these awarenesses as they are developing. My superpower is seeing beyond the surface to support the Introverted Healers & Helpers who are ready (or getting ready) to be fully seen for who they are- and the Art of Gentleness.
The Practitioners who are changing directions, tapping into their intuition and beginning to identify the steps necessary to launch the next expression of healing they are bringing to this world. The professionals who are bringing their practice into its most genuine and expanded version through the tool/lens of inner design.
Together we will connect you more deeply with the people you are meant to be serving.
What Can This Mean For Your Business?
- Your ideal clients will connect with what you're putting out on your favorite social media, blog/ vlogs and website
- You'll be seen as Trustable to help them go into those darker spaces
- You'll immediately use the right tools and techniques in sessions for the client's experience
- You'll have successful clients, who refer other people to receive your services
- This means you effortlessly know you are helping people be their best, and that you are naturally living your purpose!
See how this works in action- call me to discuss a challenging client. I'll ask you a few questions and will offer you a few tips on verbiage to connect with that specific client - where they might be coming from; words you can use in speaking their language and recognizing what drives their motivations.
We will talk about your desires for your business in 2019, and how ongoing mentoring and consultation can support you, and what that might look and feel like.
How will this help me in my life and business?
- You will speak to your favorite clients- whether it’s to their impact upon the world, their independence, their fears, or their future
- You will gain clarity in who you want to attract through your marketing
- You will get clear about your uniqueness in your work and begin to express it fully in the wider world
- You will release comparing yourself and your gifts to others
- Release Shame, Fear and/or the Perfectionism that has kept your gifts hidden so you can grow your business
- Your lifestyle and even your bank account will demonstrate Abundance in your life
How are you different from other mentors and consultants out there?
I'm different because I've developed a powerful six-session process that is unique and tailored to your individual design.
- Customized to who you are - your vulnerabilities, your stress responses and preferred Speed of life.
- We take the guesswork out of what works for you, as we use your unique design as a roadmap
- I mirror back for others the patterns which are a part of their original design, and how those underpinnings are reflected in your current paths and challenges.
- I hear what is not being said and reflect it back to you
- Hypnosis may be used to clear the path to your future
And there's more...
- This is not "Therapy" and this is Deep work. My clients tell me they experience deep shifts in their thinking and relationships with the people who mean the most to them.
- At the end of the day, I am a Soul Soother, who sees the needs behind the wants, illuminates your blind spots and simultaneously validates your life experiences. I help you settle in, and settle down into who you've always been- and perhaps have forgotten. I re-frame your experiences to hang like a loose garment vs the straight jacket that it may have seemed to be.
- I've got People! I will match you with vetted Professionals who can help you in the next step of your business. Whether your need for support is Spiritual, Financial, Website, Technology, Legal, Online Marketing, Product development, and more.
- If you're like me, if you could have done if for yourself- you would have- 'cuz I know you tried! I work with professionals (often Moms) who are tired of doing it all themselves- (because there aren't enough hours in the day or week). Who are smart enough to consider that some support might offer some Relief. We'll talk about your plans for your business, and how ongoing mentoring with me can support you in reaching your goals- in the way that works best for you!
“At the heart of each of us, whatever our imperfections, there exists a silent pulse of perfect rhythm, which is absolutely individual and unique, and yet which connects us to everything else.” ~ ~ George Leonard ~ ~
So I'm inviting you to my party - please come as you are....
Release Shame, Fear and/or the Perfectionism that has kept your gifts hidden so you can grow your business and serve more people.
Increase your self-acceptance and self-compassion
Celebrate the uniqueness of your offerings
You can recognize and connect with the souls seeking healing with you!
You will hear how to offer your clients what they want, in order to give them what they need.
You might be curious about how that works, and I hope you are! If you're tired of doing it by yourself and ready to receive some Relief..
I would invite you accept the invitation to the party by calling me at 970-440-1324 and I'd love to answer your questions.